// April 6th, 2007 // 34 Comments » // Blog
Would you tell your future partner about your blogscapades, if you haven't already?
Please answer from your own perspective, but also read as: should I [iMuslim] tell a potential spouse about this blog?
I'm not sure what blogging means to me… is it something that would be good to share, or keep to myself? I have been more open on this medium of communication, precisely because i know none of my readers know me in real life… or if any do, they haven't called me out yet!
If i let a potential in on my blog, will it affect the way i write, knowing that someone i am eager to impress, is reading? I don't think i am particularly controversial in my stance on most things, but still… i might start to censor things that i wouldn't normally.
Do i come across as a feminist (unlikely), a fundamentalist (perhaps?), an extremist (i hope not!), a looney toon (best not to answer that one, for your own safety)?
This is me, and i would say, the real me, or a part of the real me… but perhaps it is a me that only exists in this environment? Perhaps, iMuslim doesn't exist outside of the internet, and thus this persona would have no bearing on a real life relationship?
I'm not too worried about this; i am just wondering. It's always nice to share information about hobbies and interests, but blogging seems to be different somehow. Maybe because it is an exercise that many of us are not used to doing: declaring your private opinions to a public audience, that may never know your true identity, and thus never hold you accountable for them. But when the identity is revealed, then the risk of accountability automatically kicks in (though i would add that we are always accountable for every deed in front of God, but i think you know what i mean here).
Maybe that's why superheroes wear masks… they don't want to be held accountable for the undesirable consequences of their vigilante activities!
Anyway, I look forward to your input (which can be anonymous, if desired!).